Sunday, February 15, 2015

If you’re Bored, Find Yourself a Lover


Sometimes our lives seem to be in a rut. Having the same job for a few years, same relationship, same friends and same activities. Boredom can start to take over our lives and make us feel like something is missing. Well, no need to be bored anymore. Today I’ll give you the best advice I’ve gotten in years: “If you’re bored, find yourself a lover.”

What is a lover exactly?  A lover is a person who is in love with another, a person who has a strong enjoyment or liking for something; someone who loves, especially a person who has or shows a warm and general affectionate regard for others. A lover is also defined as a person who has a sexual or romantic relationship with another.

If we think about it, we are all lovers and we all want one too. But it is true that sometimes we can find ourselves in the low. Maybe you’re having a rough time at work, you just ended a relationship, you’re jaded and are not happy with your current life. Whatever the reason, you are bored. The solution: get yourself a lover.

You might wonder how you can accomplish this task. It is not as hard as it sounds; you just need to get a new hobby. Yes, when we say get a lover we mean get a hobby. Find your passion or get a new one if you have already found it.

Step out of your box; try new things until you find an activity you like. Travel, get your palm read, visit a mind reader, go kayaking, take up biking, hike, visit the rainforest, join a charity, learn to meditate, do Tai Chi or turn into a Yogi. Visit international restaurants, go to museums and art exhibitions, get a certification in something and start practicing.

The key is to try new things until you fall in love with yourself again. Have fun, get to know yourself better, learn new things, make new friends. Turn yourself into your perfect lover. I promise you will never be bored again.

Good luck finding that lover soon!

Lots of love,


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